One Simple Practice to Help Your Sex Life go from Fizzle to SIZZLE

Learn this simple practice to turn up the heat & make your sex life sizzle. I was in my 30s when I stumbled onto this ‘secret’, but it wasn’t until years later that I realized what I was experiencing had a name.  It turns out that if you do this one thing during sex, lovemaking can be surprisingly more satisfying. Sounds unlikely, improbable or too good to be true? Perhaps, but you’ll never know how great intimacy this way can...

Your Vagina Isn’t Junk

Sometime between the birth of my first child & perimenopause, I missed the memo: Stupid Euphemisms for Vagina. I am stumped. When did we start calling our parts ‘junk’? In the irreverent voice of modern society, is adult potty talk masking self-hatred or just an attempt to find a cheap laugh and a decent orgasm? Motives don’t matter in the long run, at least not to my nether region. Yoni is very vocal about her preferences,...

Nothing Plain About Vanilla

Since when did this fragrant aphrodisiac become the meme for boring love? The first time I heard lovemaking described as vanilla, condemnation dripping from the tongue, I might have felt my private life was wanting were it not for my sense of play.  My inner child has always loved vanilla, especially the rich, creamy French version. Mystifyingly delicious in every food or beverage and heady as a scent, there was nothing plain about it. That I was having...

Hard Truths About Perpetual Erections

An erection that lasts for hours is not a recipe for pleasure. It’s a medical emergency. This is a semi-hard true tale about penises and pills. Years ago, I worked as a consultant in pharmaceutical sales. I remember the frenzy in the field when another company launched Viagra. As soon as the world’s most famous bone builder popped, every other rep was hard pressed to get doctors to pay attention to what the pills they were peddling. Damned if...

Sperm Wars and Scramble Eggs

The latest assaults on the family jewels, and how you can keep yours sparkling bright. Scratch the surface of sexual health studies and you’ll find some disturbing news.  Your reproductive health and wellbeing is being monkeyed with whether or not you wanted to be in an experiment. Infertility is rising, sperm counts are shrinking. 90% of pregnant women have toxins in their bodies (according to CDC reports); 43% of women have a sexual disorder;...