Your Vagina Isn’t Junk

Sometime between the birth of my first child & perimenopause, I missed the memo: Stupid Euphemisms for Vagina. I am stumped. When did we start calling our parts ‘junk’? In the irreverent voice of modern society, is adult potty talk masking self-hatred or just an attempt to find a cheap laugh and a decent orgasm? Motives don’t matter in the long run, at least not to my nether region. Yoni is very vocal about her preferences,...

5 Herbs & Spices to Boost Your Sex Drive

If you are a foodie, let me invite you to sit down and enjoy appeteasers, inter-courses and happy endings.  Great dishes nourish our bodies, minds and souls…and if prepared with loving intention, can fuel carnal joy. To help you create a kitchen that is a wellspring of sensual foods and nourished libidos, keep reading to learn about 5 potential aphrodisiacs that can boost your sex drive, naturally. As a sexy cook, you join a movement with a...

Get Your Mojo On

Every Women Needs a Mojo Mirror When a person is on fire and in tune with life, it’s obvious to all those who witness that they are in the zone, that ultimate state of being. Once we’ve tasted that mojoliciousness, we yearn for it in the way a child years for the comfort of loving arms. To live and love in the Mojo moment is to be fully who we are – past the pretenses, the worries and expectations, whatever they may be. A women in that...

Nothing Plain About Vanilla

Since when did this fragrant aphrodisiac become the meme for boring love? The first time I heard lovemaking described as vanilla, condemnation dripping from the tongue, I might have felt my private life was wanting were it not for my sense of play.  My inner child has always loved vanilla, especially the rich, creamy French version. Mystifyingly delicious in every food or beverage and heady as a scent, there was nothing plain about it. That I was having...

Mindful Non-Orgasmic Sex

The energies of the boardroom have invaded the bedroom. Non-orgasmic sex can change that. Given the commotion of modern living — heavy on guilt and light on delight – it’s no wonder couples are yearning for meaningful intimacy and don’t always know where to turn. Could lovemaking without a goal in mind pave the way for sustaining relationships? Though I see that now, it wasn’t until I tasted true pleasure that I got it. My...