The most powerful thing you can do NOW to feel alive ALWAYS

That you are universally skin-hungry and primal in your basic urges bears out in your conversations, the media obsessions with other people’s sex lives, and our ferocious reading of erotic, how-to sex books, even the collective gasp at Fifty Shades of Grey.  Harlequin-esque BDSM may be the gateway drug to fetishized sex in vanilla bedrooms… it could be the wake up call that erotica is a literary genre worth taking a private peek at…or it...

One Simple Practice for a Summertime of Sizzling Sex

“For once, I did nothing but allow him to pleasure me. On his gentle insistance, I relaxed into his embrace and let go of the mental static that usually accompanied making love. Each time those all to familiar gremlins of fear, anxiety or self-consciousness made me tense, my lover knew exactly what to do. Lips and hands brought me back to the one magic moment. Kisses said, your skin is warm and delicious. Eyes glowed, you are perfect the way you...

Your Vagina Isn’t Junk

Sometime between the birth of my first child & perimenopause, I missed the memo: Stupid Euphemisms for Vagina. I am stumped. When did we start calling our parts ‘junk’? In the irreverent voice of modern society, is adult potty talk masking self-hatred or just an attempt to find a cheap laugh and a decent orgasm? Motives don’t matter in the long run, at least not to my nether region. Yoni is very vocal about her preferences,...

5 Herbs & Spices to Boost Your Sex Drive

If you are a foodie, let me invite you to sit down and enjoy appeteasers, inter-courses and happy endings.  Great dishes nourish our bodies, minds and souls…and if prepared with loving intention, can fuel carnal joy. To help you create a kitchen that is a wellspring of sensual foods and nourished libidos, keep reading to learn about 5 potential aphrodisiacs that can boost your sex drive, naturally. As a sexy cook, you join a movement with a...

4 Tips to Eating Sex-Friendly Foods

Want to know the secrets to eating sexy, healthy, sensual foods? The way of eating that’s best for your sex life has been around for ages, and it’s easier than you think.  Stocking sex-friendly foods in your pantry and preparing aphrodisiac meals for you and your beloved is just 4 steps away. Keep reading to learn the secrets of foodies who eat for more than just good health. Your inner sensual siren will thank you soon enough! So...