Is the World ready for Sexy Feminists?

Women are starting to own their sexual power. Is the world ready for a future with sexy feminists? Years ago, I posted a playful heart-in-cheek article about the emerging post-feminist femme fatales (PFF) on a staunchly feminist website. A PFF, I wrote, was both an “accomplished woman in all political, social, environmental and economic arenas,” and an “enchantress.” Confident and graceful, funny and committed to social justice, she wore lingerie,...

One Simple Practice to Help Your Sex Life go from Fizzle to SIZZLE

Learn this simple practice to turn up the heat & make your sex life sizzle. I was in my 30s when I stumbled onto this ‘secret’, but it wasn’t until years later that I realized what I was experiencing had a name.  It turns out that if you do this one thing during sex, lovemaking can be surprisingly more satisfying. Sounds unlikely, improbable or too good to be true? Perhaps, but you’ll never know how great intimacy this way can...

Your Vagina Isn’t Junk

Sometime between the birth of my first child & perimenopause, I missed the memo: Stupid Euphemisms for Vagina. I am stumped. When did we start calling our parts ‘junk’? In the irreverent voice of modern society, is adult potty talk masking self-hatred or just an attempt to find a cheap laugh and a decent orgasm? Motives don’t matter in the long run, at least not to my nether region. Yoni is very vocal about her preferences,...

4 Tips to Eating Sex-Friendly Foods

Want to know the secrets to eating sexy, healthy, sensual foods? The way of eating that’s best for your sex life has been around for ages, and it’s easier than you think.  Stocking sex-friendly foods in your pantry and preparing aphrodisiac meals for you and your beloved is just 4 steps away. Keep reading to learn the secrets of foodies who eat for more than just good health. Your inner sensual siren will thank you soon enough! So...

Nothing Plain About Vanilla

Since when did this fragrant aphrodisiac become the meme for boring love? The first time I heard lovemaking described as vanilla, condemnation dripping from the tongue, I might have felt my private life was wanting were it not for my sense of play.  My inner child has always loved vanilla, especially the rich, creamy French version. Mystifyingly delicious in every food or beverage and heady as a scent, there was nothing plain about it. That I was having...