You may think you are doing it right. Chance are, you are doing it with dangerous chemicals lurking around your best intentions. That’s the icky news. The good news is that making love naturally and restoring your libido is easier than you think. It starts in an unlikely place.
First, play along as a script reader. The following conversation has taken place many times the past few years, I can almost repeat it verbatim.
Them: What do you do for a living?
Me: I’m an author and a coach.
Them: Really? What do you write about? What kind of coaching do you do?
Me: Sex. Intimacy. Relationship stuff. With a little environment thrown in the mix.
Them: Wow. How did you get into that? What exactly do trees and sex have in common?
Me (fantasy 1): Long story. Basically, I found myself naked in this forest digging for roots and…..NOT!
Me (real 2): Long story. Basically, I was diagnosed with a debilitating pain disorder and realized just how toxic modern living is to pleasure, sexual wellness and health. Now I help others end their romance with toxins and pollutions in the bedroom and homes, have an affair with nature that heals and nourishes them, and flex their love muscles so they can have sustainable, meaningful relationships. By sustainable, I don’t mean all night long, unless that’s your thang.
Thus begins the rather colorful explanation of how treating our bodies as a natural wonder changes how we view sexuality and planetary stewardship. I talk about healing sexual and relationship wounds, about gender roles and patriarchy, and explain that we are living, loving and making babies in environmentally toxic soups.
I understand how unusual this philosophy sounds to the average listener. It took me more than a decade to discover the term – ecosexuality – and much soul searching to understand that my life and sexualove style needed a thorough makeover. Living radically aware and plugging into the naturescape in our modern world is as real as it gets.
Them: I eat healthy. I buy organic. I drive a Prius.
Me: Do you use plastic containers? plastic wrap? antibacterial soap?
Them: What? Sure.
Me: All those things put chemicals in our private parts. I’m sure you’d rather not have endocrine disrupters tweaking your reproductive system, or known carcinogens rubbing up against your private lady bits. Going green in your bedroom is a major wake up call. It’s safe sex like you’ve never imagined.
Them (version 1): I heard about plastic/antibacterial soap/ etc….I just didn’t think it made that much difference/applied to me/really matters….
Them (version 2): (Silence. The couple looks alarmingly at one another, visions of last night’s romp in their minds, wondering what naughty deed was un-appealingly un-natural).
Truly safer sex goes beyond pregnancy or STI prevention. Greening our intimate landscape starts with detoxifying our homes. Detoxifying your home is an ongoing labor of love and commitment with the payoff including greater sexual health, wellbeing and pleasure.
This is the gateway point to ecosexuality. As a movement, it encompasses what I call the five Ss: sexuality, sustainability, spirituality, science and society. Eliminating dangerous chemicals in your relationship touches on at least four of these: it enhances sexuality, is rooted in science, asks us to evaluate social norms and helps us sustain pleasure and wellbeing.
Fortunately, there are resources available including my VIP program – YOUR Naturally Sexy Home Cleanse – that can help YOU make a difference in your world.
My clients are supported in their efforts to remove dangerous chemicals that have no business being near their biz.
Three of the biggest sexual health offenders include Bisphenol –A (BPA), Triclosan and Polybrominated diphenyl ethers (PBDEs).
IN ALL LIKELIHOOD, THEY ARE IN YOUR HOME RIGHT NOW. IN THE LINING OF YOUR CANNED FOODS, IN YOUR TOOTHPASTE OR MATTRESSES OR PAJAMAS.
IN YOUR CHILDRENS’ LUNCHES.
IN YOUR PREGNANT NEIGHBOR’S BODY OR YOUR NURSING MOTHERS’ MILK.
Scientific studies have linked these three chemicals to funky spunk, undescended testicles, delayed puberty, procoscious (early onset) puberty, reduced fertility, low birth weight, birth defects, breast cancer, and genital malformations. Even IVF treatments – a sign of the times and decreasing fertility – is impacted by the presence of at least one of these toxins.
Imagine making love naturally and creating chemistry free from chemicals.
Imagine nourishing yourself and your partner with foods that are optimal for your sensual wellbeing.
Imagine detoxifying your home from harmful, noxious chemicals.
Imagine treating your body as a natural wonder.
YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE. YOU CAN LIVE AND LOVE WHOLISTICALLY.
I CAN HELP.
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I’m that committed to YOUR wellbeing.
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It may just save your love life (and the planet will thank you too)!
Helping Others Transform Love and Relationships. Inspired by Nature.
Per state law, I must point out that I am not licensed as a healing arts practitioner. The intuitive advice I offer is not a substitute for medical or psychological intervention, nor should it be considered as such. If you are suffering or have suffered medical or psychological distress, please seek appropriate care from a medical professional.