Mark takes aim at our common enemy: the ever elusive ideal of ‘perfection’, and ends up asking that age old question: does size really matter? Depends, of course, on what organ you are referring to. Bottom line: this cock crows about the women who taught him love and sex from the inside out.
I have a very fond appreciation for the female form. They’re soft and curvy and wonderful to explore and, well, play with. They are even more enticing when you can’t see all of it. Ah, the bliss of mystery and eroticism.
The male form, however, I just don’t see the attraction. Oh sure, we know what the fashion magazines and media says women are supposed to be attracted to. WE know what we’re “supposed” to look like to get a woman. Most of us don’t look like that. Not even close. In fact, I don’t know too many guys that do. One that comes to mind is blessed with a beautiful body, but he’s gay. And fun. And bright. I hate him. No, I don’t, that’s just dumb to say. I consider him a friend and someone I would trust. And I’m sure many women wouldn’t kick him out of their tub if he showed up dressed up in nothing like Anja Rubik’s friend in these fashion shots.
From a purely physical perspective, guys, there is nothing like the feeling of your woman reaching a massive orgasm while you’re deeply thrust inside her! Amen to that!
So ladies, does the same concept hold true for you as it does for us? If you see a guy that has that “Madison Avenue” look about him – pretty boys straight outa Vogue or one of those glossy bits - but you don’t get to see his entire form, does that make him more desirable?
Maybe guys like me could make that work. We could show you our legs, ( I’ve been told mine are very nice.) We’ll let you see our butts ( I’ve been told mine is cute). We’ll flash our manly arms, ( they’re long enough to wrap around you nicely).
As for the part between our shoulders and hips, that’s where guys with a certain sex appeal (yeah, I know, that’s just a euphamism for age) tend to develop a special volume of softness. Plush. Yeah, that’s it. We’re plush in the middle.
We need you to give it to us straight, ’cause some of us can’t see the appeal of a guy that seems to have river stones embedded in his abdomen! Sure the bulging muscles on the arms and legs make some sort of sense, but not too much, ya know! Just like breasts, they don’t need to be THAT big. It’s all about balance. Healthy balance.
Can we recognize and acknowledge a finely tuned male form? Yes, of course we can. Guys like that take us out of certain competitions. Not all of course. We gotta think that our minds can win over many of the superficial nuances of physique.
Here’s the big question: Does “size” really matter? We hear that it does and it doesn’t, and that it’s not the size that counts as much as whether or not a guy knows how to use it. I’ll admit, 20 years ago I had no idea what that meant. I have learned. I have learned from a woman. Thank goodness for patient women. I have also learned enough about the physiology of female genitalia that size can and does have a very definite effect. It’s not always good. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing.
David Cates wrote about size in What To Do If Your Cock Is Too Small. To say that what David said resonates with me is an understatement. The “learning” I mentioned before is mostly about physiology. The size and shape of a vagina are pretty much standard. There’s a certain width, a certain depth. Sure there are variations, just like there are in penises. I grew up in the generation that knew of guys like Peter North, Ron Jeremy and John Holmes. If you watch any of their old films closely, you’ll notice they never got that thing all the way inside! Why? There’s not enough depth! Plus, with that kind of length they miss one of the best parts.
As I said, width has a definite effect on female pleasure. The main reason has nothing to do with the inside. It’s right at the “opening”. That’s where the majority of nerves are. It has been described to me as a feeling of “fullness”. Ok, so us little guys aren’t going to get that reaction, but if we use a little agility and proper positioning, we can compensate for that with some serious stimulation. From a purely physical perspective, guys, there is nothing like the feeling of your woman reaching a massive orgasm while you’re deeply thrust inside her! Amen to that!
None of this means a damn thing, guys, if you think you can just lube up and start banging away. Unless, of course, you both agree that you need a quickie. Don’t expect a quickie to take her to any kind of explosions and stars though. It might work for you, but women need a bit more “coaxing” up that hill.
And guys like me love that taking a woman to that level.
Now it’s your turn to weigh in on what women are attracted to in a man. What attributes in a man are you most attracted to? Make him desirable? Make you want to blow his bubble in the bath?